We all have our free agency and God holds us accountable for the way we use it in thought and deed. "Kindness, compassion, and love are powerful instruments in strengthening us to carry heavy burdens imposed without any fault of our own and to do what we know to be right."
Elder Dallin H. Oaks

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Positive Activity Interventions

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Positive Activity Interventions

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“Positive Activity Interventions”
The Spoken Word
By Lloyd D. Newell

the familyNew research affirms what most of us know from personal experience: positive thoughts and actions help both the giver and receiver feel better. Scientists call these “positive activity interventions,” though you might simply call them good deeds. They can be as simple as helping someone in need, showing some kindness, writing a thank you note, or even counting your blessings.

Besides the value such thoughts and actions have in themselves, scientists affirm that they can also “serve as an effective, low-cost treatment for depression.”1 These simple, everyday actions can have a profound influence on how we feel about ourselves, others, and life in general. They require no doctor’s prescription, have no negative side effects, and most often cost nothing more than a little time and effort—and a bit of your heart.
Yet, as we all know, common sense is not always common practice. We may be so focused on our own problems that it seems difficult—even impossible—to think of others or do for others in any meaningful way. So start small.

the familyWhen one woman was mourning the loss of her husband, she found a way, even in her sorrow, to open her heart to others. She began writing notes to people who had touched her life for good. She made phone calls and visits to others who might be lonely. She baked homemade treats and shared them. Miraculously, her own loss became more bearable as she determined to think and act positively for the good of others.
Today, reflect on the good things in your life—even write them down. And as you go about your busy life, find time for “positive activity interventions.” A smile, a willing heart, and a helping hand can change someone’s day for the better—and yours as well.

Joe Ollivetti
For The Family 

 

One Small Gesture

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ONE SMALL GESTURE

When we love the LORD with all our being unconditionally, we are moved to realize that “Love thy Neighbor” is not as difficult a thing to do as many of us may have once thought.

the family‘Owe no man anything, but to love one another: for he that loves another has fulfilled the law’ (Rom. 13: 8).

It simply puts into perspective that those words commanded us means to respect, love and regard our neighbor’s needs and desires to the same standard as we regard our own and if we do that then we have lived up the LORD’S will.  This however is easier said than done, but with the hand of GOD and his guidance it becomes a simple mission in our lives.

It was 13 years ago this holiday season that we moved into our brand new home.  What a blessing that for a half of a year we  had an opportunity to get to know those having their homes built along side ours in our brand new planned community.  “Ah yes, built in neighbors”!  This was our first Christmas shared with all our newfound neighborhood family and it was truly uplifting.

the familySummer finally showed up and the traffic cones came out so our children could have fun and play in a safe area of our section of the neighborhood. As we grew to know one another better, we started branching out with Bible studies, barbeques, movie nights, potlucks and all the neighborhood trimmings. the family

Most folks more than likely think of a “Neighbor” as someone who lives next door or perhaps across the street from them.  That may be true in a sense of geography or planned community lot locations, but as GOD tells us, everyone is our neighbor.

As time passed things began to change.  Many neighbors had moved away for various reasons.  Some had relocated to other cities, states or other neighborhoods.  As habits kicked  in…we got busy and eventually lost touch with most of them.  Inevitable we got new neighbors . . . but it doesn’t quite feel the same, so we just go about our business and do the newcomers.

I see it every single day that our families, friends and yes . . . our neighbors, hunker down and charge after the brass ring.  Neighbor’s drive by without waving and garage doors open and close as it swallows the car, vans and SUV’s without a single sighting of a person.  Leaving in its wake a neighborhood of strangers.  It used to be that hard working families would find a neighborhood they like for many reasons, but mostly because of the “NEIGHBORhood” and those who live in it.

the familyYou would pull up in your moving van and before you get the back door rolled up, there could be someone reaching a hand out to shake yours and welcome you to the “Neighborhood”.  Before you know it, you  might just have a half dozen folks offering to help you unload your truck.  Often times you would have a dinner invitation for that night or at least by the weekend.  Remember that feeling?  I do!  What in the world happened?  It’s Satan who steps in and fills us with doubt and fear to reach out to the new “Stranger’s” in the neighborhood.  Worried and concerned about the unknown.  “Will they like us”  “Will I like them?”  “Perhaps they don’t want to be bothered”!the family

All sorts of thought just stop us in our tracks.

This Holiday season I say we make the first move to get back our Neighborhoods.  Remember, GOD commands us to reach out to our neighbors and as we do, he will be there with his hand on our shoulder.  It just requires for us to make the first gesture and not wait for our neighbors to do it first.

the familyWith Christmas upon us, just give of yourself in some small way by baking a neighbor or two a delicious holiday cake or some colorful Christmas cookies. the familyIf you can’t bake, write them a kind note and say something simple and take it to that neighbor that you don’t see or talk to very often.  Just follow the promptings of the LORD and your own inspiration as to what to do.  It has to do with one’s heart’s desires.  Let’s start rebuilding our NEIGHBORhoods one sincere gesture at a time and one neighbor at a time.  Like the words to the song about One Heart sings, “When the love for another makes a Stranger you’re Brother, then you’re ONE”!

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We challenge all of you reading this to take the first step . . .RIGHT NOW!

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