By Alan on Apr 07 in Blog tagged doors, grief, left behind, length of life, life everlasting, life is hard enough without goodbyes, separation, sorrow, the hurt | 5 Comments
Life Is Hard Enough Without Goodbyes

Separation evokes pangs of sorrow and shock among those left behind. The hurt is real. Only its intensity varies. Some doors are heavier than others. The sense of tragedy may be related to age. Generally the younger the victim, the greater the grief. Yet even when the elderly or infirm have been afforded merciful relief, their loved ones are rarely ready to let go. The only length of life that seems to satisfy the longings of the human heart is life everlasting.
That is totally fine Alan, to disagree with “my” view….. I do believe in God, I always have. But you can not be sure about afterlife, where is the proof? Apart from scripture thousands of years old. Thanks for sharing your views.
I dont really see how you can say “death is one goodbye” It is not just a “goodbye”…..It’s final…over…gone. You can not compare it to a seperation, etc, that person would still be around and not dead. I have suffered the most painful, heart-wrenching grief in my life, the most unbearable pain… I sure think God got the grieving process wrong somewhere all the line…..
Shelly, I am glad to disagree with you and I know we all will live again and see our loved ones that went before us. Everywhere I look, I see evidences of God’s handiwork. Jesus died for us that we might all live again. If you are not sure of it, then you have not searched for Him. Please trust in my words and then go and find Him. We all lived before, and we will all live again after this life. There is more to life than just dying. Because of Jesus, we have an eternity to live with Him and our families forever. I PROMISE!
TO the Asst..or Staff.
I know what you are trying to say here, you also have to look at this..or at it another way.
Life is JUST what you make it.
Saying goodbyes is hard enough without problems in between, or anything else. But make sure GOD is always there..and HE IS!!!
Always–ALWAYS be sure YOUR family is there!! Cause FAMILY is the MOST important..and live each day as it was and were your last.
Yes, death is one goodbye, but parted friendships, broken engagements, separations, divorce, etc, are also hard goodbyes. Thanks for sharing!